You’re working on a project and your boss hasemailed you for the fourth time that day asking for an update.
She eventually tells you she wants to review the report you’re working on. You share it, and she finds small grammatical errors and says that you need to pay greater attention to detail.
This is a sign that you might have a micromanaging boss.
But how can you deal with micromanaging?
What Is Micromanaging?
Micromanaging bosses monitor your work to a degree that may seem inappropriate to you. They might:
constantly ask you questions about your progress
criticize small details about your work regularly
demand that you get approval for all aspects of your work
don’t delegate tasks to you or anyone else on the team
Consider these scenarios
A. You’ve just started a project and your boss asks you to send him an email update three times a day.
B. You deliver a presentation and get great feedback from your colleagues. The next day your boss criticizes your choice of fonts in your presentation and says you should have run it past him first.
C. Your boss is struggling to meet a deadline. You offer to help but your boss doesn’t involve you and pulls an all-nighter to complete the work himself.
Which of these scenarios suggest that you have a micromanaging boss?
What Are The Causes And Effects Of Micromanagement?
Micromanaging bosses show a lack of trust in your performance. Trust is one of the most important aspects of any relationship.
Their actions might leave you feeling like you can’t do anything right. All you want to do is get on with your work and this constant scrutiny:
affects your morale
causes you to feel undermined
If you had another job to go to, you would resign instantly!
Prepare To Talk To Your Boss
You're ready to discuss micromanagement with your boss, so it's now time to think about the outcomes that you want from your meeting.
Depending on the behaviors that you come across from your boss, you might want to discuss:
how often updates are needed
removing the need to ask for approval for small things
taking ownership of a small project from start to end to see how you do
This will help you gain more autonomy and build more trust between you and your boss, giving you more time to focus on your work.
Find a time and place
Schedule a meeting with your boss at an appropriate time and place. Make sure you won't be interrupted and that you'll have as much privacy as possible.
Which of these actions will show that you are outcome-focused during your meeting?
Talk To Your Boss!
Remember to take notes during your meeting.
Although you're not happy with your boss' micromanaging ways, it's important to consider their point of view.
Empathize with them. Say that you understand that it’s difficult managing a team and that you want to do what you can to help.
Ask your boss if there is any aspect of your work that you need to improve on.
Raise the points you've come up with during the preparation stage.
Send a follow-up email to your boss with the points discussed and the actions you've each agreed to.
Which Of These Statements Is Best?
Samira is in a meeting with her boss. Which of these opening statements demonstrates that she is empathizing with her boss' position?
A. "I understand that it must be difficult managing four people, as well as handling all the work you have to do. I would like to help and I have some suggestions."
B. "I'm not sure you understand the effect your micromanaging is having on me, this is how we're going to put a stop to it..."
C. "I'll have to speak to HR if we can't come to some sort of agreement about your micromanaging, I need to you to do the following...."
Which statement is best?
Speak To Human Resources
If you feel your boss didn't hear your concerns, consider speaking to HR about the issues you're unhappy with.
They may be able to host a meeting between you and your boss to discuss your concerns.
Tell your HR Manager that you've already met with your boss and use your notes from the meeting to write an outline of what was discussed.
What To Do If Nothing Changes
If speaking to your boss and HR doesn't change your boss' behavior, then you have three choices:
Carry on working with your boss for now and hope they will soon leave
Request a transfer to a different team if possible
Find another job!
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