How many times have you been on your phone for a minute, only to look up and realize that an hour has passed?
If you're worried that you might be using the internet too much, you're not alone.
One study found that over 12% of people were at high risk of suffering from internet addiction.
Common Warning Signs To Look Out For
Excessive internet use
Preoccupation with the internet
Tolerance and withdrawal symptoms when not using the internet
Prioritizing the Internet over other parts of your life
The internet causes serious distress or negatively impacting your life
Let's go over these warning signs in more detail.
1. Excessive Internet Use
Most Americans use the internet every day, and almost 30% say they are almost always on the internet.
You might be using the internet too much if you:
Find yourself using the internet for longer than you intend to
Want to use the internet less, but find it hard to stop yourself
Even though most people use the internet every day, internet use is only excessive when it causes us significant distress.
When should we be worried that someone's internet use might be a problem? When their internet use...
Teaches them about politics or the news
Is used for work-related reasons
Helps them keep in touch with friends
Causes them to be depressed or anxious
2. Being Preoccupied With The Internet
People suffering from internet addiction might:
Think about the internet when not using it
Think a lot about what they are going to post and when to post it
Care a lot about what people on the internet think about them
Being overly preoccupied with likes, comments, and follows is one warning sign.
Katie is an avid social media user. What might be a sign that Katie is struggling with internet addiction?
She is sad when a stranger unfollows her
She has a lot of followers
She talks to her friends on Snapchat
She posts on social media every day
3. Tolerance And Withdrawal Symptoms
Tolerance means that you find yourself wanting or needing to be on the Internet for longer and longer periods of time.
Think about how long it takes you to scroll through your social media feed. Ten minutes? Fifteen minutes? Thirty minutes? An hour? If you find this number getting bigger, that may be a warning sign.
Withdrawal symptoms might happen when you aren't using the Internet. They might include:
Feeling distressed, anxious, or jittery when you haven't been online lately
Having fantasies or obsessive thoughts about the internet
Returning to the internet to make uncomfortable feelings go away
Which is a sign of a healthy relationship with the internet?
Feeling anxious when offline
Enjoying using the internet
Needing to use the internet more
Fantasizing about using the internet
4. Changes In Priorities
Is the internet one of the most important things in your life?
Being addicted to something makes us believe it is more important than our:
Signs that someone is prioritizing the internet in a harmful way include:
A loved one has voiced concern about their internet use
They have trouble getting places on time
Lying to others about their internet use
Their grades or productivity at work have suffered because of their internet use
What To Do If You Recognize The Symptoms Of Internet Addiction
Tell your loved one that you are concerned, but don't be pushy. They may not want to talk about it yet.
Offer support. Let them know you are there if they ever want to talk.
Suggest activities that don't involve the Internet (like going for a walk, listening to music together, or playing board games).
In this text chat, the sender suggests to their friend Paul that they go for a walk outside first instead of defaulting to playing video games.
If you think you might have an Internet addiction issue, you aren't alone.
Reach out to loved ones, your doctor, or mental health practitioners for support.
How would you rate your relationship with the Internet? Have you experienced any of the warning signs?
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