
Have you ever wondered why "this" decision felt right but "that" choice seemed distant?
Have you ever been unsure when to use "this" vs. "that"? You’re not alone! Even experienced writers sometimes struggle with these slight differences.
You'll easily master this skill in very little time and improve your writing. Whether you're writing an important email, a school paper, or simply texting a friend, knowing when to use "this" vs. "that" can make a big difference.
Turn this confusion into clarity!
Did you know?
The words "this" and "that" have ancient origins, tracing back to Old English. "This" comes from the Old English "þis," while "that" comes from "þæt." Both words have been used in English for over a thousand years!
Understand the Basics
Do you have something nearby that you can point to?

Pick it up. Is it a pen, a book, or maybe your phone? Now, say out loud, "This [object] is near me." Notice how "this" feels right because the object is close to you.
Now, look around the room for something further away.

Point to it and say, "That [object] is over there."
Feel the difference?
"This" is for things close by, and "that" is for things farther away. They're both demonstrative pronouns.
Did you know?
A demonstrative pronoun is a word used to stand in for a noun. They are used to point to something or someone specific (e.g., “this is my sister”). The English demonstrative pronouns are this, that, these, and those.
This vs That: Near vs Far
Proximity can be physical or metaphorical. Let’s make this interactive!
Think about an issue you are currently dealing with.
Say, "This issue I’m dealing with needs immediate attention."

Now, recall a problem you resolved last month.
Say, "That issue we resolved last month was tough."
Notice how using "this" makes it feel current and urgent, while "that" places it in the past.
Quiz
Which word implies that a problem has been resolved and is no longer a concern?
This vs. That: Now vs. Then
Time to travel through time!
Imagine planning a vacation. Say out loud, "This summer, I plan to travel."
Feels immediate and exciting, right?
Now, think back to a memorable summer. Say, "That summer, I traveled a lot."
"That" helps to place it in the past, giving it a nostalgic feel.
Quiz
You are currently at the beach enjoying the sun. How do you express this?
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This vs. That: Introducing vs Recalling
Ready to get specific?
Think of a new idea you want to introduce in a meeting or a conversation.
Say, "This is what I propose: a new strategy for our project."
Now, recall an idea you discussed earlier.
Say, "That was the reason for our decision."
See how "this" brings focus to new information, while "that" refers back to something already known.
You can use "this" and "that" with nouns or on their own.
With nouns: This pen has no ink.
On their own: This is fun! That was cool.
Did you know?
Specificity is important because it contributes to lively writing. John Hodgman once remarked that "Specificity is the soul of narrative." This truth becomes apparent to readers "when writing lacks specificity, thus lacking soul."
Practice with Examples
Test your understanding with some interactive practice!

Complete the sentences with either "this" or "that":
___ is the book I was telling you about. (Hint: You mentioned it earlier.)
___ is the best day of my life. (Hint: You’re talking about today.)
I can’t believe ___ happened. (Hint: Referring to a past event.)
Look at ___ beautiful sunset! (Hint: You’re pointing to it right now.)
Quiz
Choose the correct option that is the correct answer for the above sentences in the correct order.
Check for Understanding
Quick review time!
Answer these questions to see how well you’ve grasped the concept of "this" vs. "that":
Which word should you use to refer to an idea you just mentioned?
Which word is appropriate for an object you're currently holding?
If you need more practice, revisit the examples and try creating your own sentences.
Quiz
Try to find the correct answer for above questions.
Take Action
Pay attention to how you use "this" vs. "that" in emails, reports, and everyday communication. Keep practicing!
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