Oh no, traffic again?! You just know you're going to be late to work.
If I'm late, my boss is going to be angry. They might even fire me. If I'm fired, I won't be able to buy food or pay my rent. I'm going to end up homeless, starving, and I'll die alone!
Is the above scenario possible? Maybe. But is it likely?
The scenario you just read is an example of catastrophizing.
What is Catastrophizing?
Catastrophizing is a way of thinking called cognitive distortion. It's when we think an unfavorable outcome to a single event will have far-reaching, disastrous consequences.
Defuse catastrophic thinking with these three strategies so you can keep calm and carry on. 😎
Try Cognitive Reframing
This effective technique for defusing catastrophizing thoughts comes from cognitive behavioral therapy. It has three steps:
1. Notice and identify your troubling thoughts
Ask yourself: What negative event or situation are you worried about? What do you imagine might happen as an outcome (or outcomes) of this negative event?
It can be helpful to write your answers down so that you can reflect on them in step #2.
2. Question your thoughts
Now ask yourself: What evidence do I have for this outcome(s) I'm envisioning? Is this outcome realistic?
Returning to your notes, rank the outcome(s) you're imagining from 1-5 on a scale from "extremely likely" to "not at all likely."
3. Reframe and replace the thoughts
Try to think of at least three other outcomes for the situation. Write them down. They can be positive, neutral, or even simply less terrible than your original thought.
Keeping these alternatives in mind will help break the cycle of catastrophizing.
Practice Excellent Self-Care
Research shows that we are more likely to catastrophize when we are feeling depleted mentally, physically, or emotionally. The following self-care strategies will help you to minimize time spent thinking the worst.
Meditation can help you recognize and question your catastrophic thoughts. It can help reduce negative thoughts and build emotional resilience, among many other health benefits.
Journaling is a great way to get your catastrophic thoughts out of your head so that you can analyze and transform them. No matter how much or how little you enjoy writing, there are many ways to effectively journal to reduce anxiety.
Staying active releases feel-good endorphins that enhance your sense of well being. Studies show that regular exercise for 30 minutes 3-5 times per week can reduce symptoms of anxiety, which includes catastrophizing.
You're still stuck in traffic. What can you do NOW to stop catastrophizing about being late to work? Select all answers that apply.
Are you ready to use one or more of these strategies to reduce your catastrophic thinking?