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Congrats!

You've decided to apply to college. You've got a lot of important decisions to make!

But first, you need to apply and get accepted.

A letter of recommendation is a typical requirement for most universities. Requesting a letter can be daunting and sometimes nerve-racking! Understanding the process and being fully prepared will make the process easier.

Professional vs Personal References

When requesting a letter of recommendation, consider who you ask wisely! References should be professional in nature unless otherwise stated.

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Professional: someone you've worked closely with who can speak on your abilities.

  • Teachers

  • Employers

  • Volunteer or internship supervisors

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Personal: someone who knows you outside of work or school and can speak on your character or values.

  • Coaches

  • Faith leaders

  • Mentors

For college applications, academic references are strongly encouraged. Asking a teacher or instructor is the best option.

Quiz

Which of the following would NOT be a professional reference? Select all that apply:

Consider Who to Ask

Ideally, you want to ask someone who you've known and worked closely with for at least a year. Consider 2-3 people who you feel confident asking for a letter of recommendation, in case they are busy or decline.

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Understandably, this may be difficult for high schoolers who have limited work experience or have new teachers each semester! Forming genuine relationships early on and staying connected will make it easier when it comes time to request recommendations.

You want your recommendation to be

  • strong

  • personalized

  • detailed

Asking someone who may not know you well will result in a generic, weak letter of recommendation. You want to stand out in your college application!

Request a Letter of Recommendation

Be prepared for rejection! Remember, while it is part of a teacher's job to write letters of recommendation, you're not entitled to a letter. Teachers are very busy and are often writing letters of recommendation for many other students at the same time.

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  • Discuss with your recommender ahead of time! Talk about your goals and plans for the future and what you learned from their class or how it prepared you for your future.

  • Ask in person, if possible! Don't put them on the spot. Instead, offer to provide any materials and ask them to follow up with you once they've had a moment to decide.

Provide Materials

Great! They've said yes! Now what?

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  1. Give them plenty of time. Remember, they're busy, too! A common courtesy is at least 2-4 weeks before the letter is due. Make sure to provide deadlines and instructions.

  2. Provide any helpful materials. Some teachers will ask for a resume, a draft of your personal statement, or a brag sheet. You can remind them of accomplishments or personal strengths that you want them to highlight.

  3. Send friendly, concise reminders before the due date. 1-2 reminders should be sufficient. Don't overwhelm them with too many emails!

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Be sure to send a thank-you email or card after they've submitted the letter of recommendation. You might need them in the future for a scholarship application or college program!

Take Action

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Before you request a professional letter of recommendation, take these steps!

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