Need to talk to someone about your depression? Follow these 7 steps to reach out for help 🛟

Depression can feel like an endless tunnel of darkness, leaving you isolated and struggling to find your way out.

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But you don't have to navigate this journey alone. Reaching out to someone when you're experiencing depression can be a lifeline, offering support, understanding, and a glimmer of hope.

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Learn how you can reach out to a friend, family member, or professional about your feelings of depression and take the first step toward getting better.

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Acknowledging that you're dealing with depression is a significant first step. When you notice persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, or a lack of interest in activities you once enjoyed, it's a sign that it's time to seek help.

Other symptoms of depression include:

• Loss of interest or pleasure in activities you used to enjoy

• Change in sleep patterns (e.g., trouble falling/staying asleep or excessive sleep)

• Increase or decrease in appetite/weight

• Fatigue and lack of energy

• Difficulty concentrating

• Feelings of guilt or worthlessness

• Physical symptoms (e.g., headaches, stomach problems, pain)

• Suicidal thoughts

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Selecting the right person to reach out to is crucial. Opt for someone who is compassionate, understanding, and who you feel comfortable talking to about your feelings.

Make a list of people you could reach out to for support. The list could include a:

• close friend

• family member

• partner

• mental health professional

Timing matters. Seek a quiet and comfortable space where you can have an uninterrupted conversation. Both you and the person you're reaching out to should have sufficient time to discuss your feelings.

You could meet:

• At home

• In a quiet restaurant/cafe

• For a nature walk

Starting the conversation can be daunting, but remember that your feelings are valid.

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Begin with a gentle approach, such as saying, "I've been struggling with my emotions lately, and I think I might be dealing with depression." This sets the tone for an open and honest discussion.

Describe your experiences and feelings honestly. Share specific symptoms you've noticed, like changes in sleep patterns, appetite, or energy levels.

Even if you're not able to express why you are feeling this way, it is OK to simply let them know that you're not OK.

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For example, you might say:

• "I've been feeling really down and overwhelmed lately. I don't think I'm OK."

• "I have trouble getting out of bed in the morning and I find it hard to motivate myself to do even simple tasks, like brushing my teeth or having a shower."

• "I have recurring thoughts about hurting myself."

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Let the person know how they can help you. You may want to express that you're not asking them to "solve the problem," but seeking a space to share.

Tell them how they can best support you, be it:

• lending an empathetic ear

• helping you to seek professional help

• accompanying you to appointments

• offering practical assistance (e.g., buying groceries, cooking meals, regularly checking in, etc.)

Not everyone knows about depression, and that's okay. You can help them understand by sharing some resources. Send them an article or video that explains what depression is and how it feels. This can open up their eyes to your experience.

Some resources you could share include:

• The Byte, "How do I support someone who reaches out about their depression?"

• The video below, called, "What is Depression?"

Reaching out for help when you're facing depression is a brave and important step. Remember, you're not a burden for opening up about your feelings. The right people will want to support you through the tough times.

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Check out the list below for more actions you can take to start your journey to better mental health.