Would you like to gain more control over your emotional reactions?

We experience so many challenges every day. The way we react to the situations we find ourselves in might cause us to lose control, make others feel badly, and even make us feel badly about ourselves, too.

Understanding the differences between emotions and feelings is the first step to gaining control over our reactions, especially in stressful situations. So what do you say?

Cartoon figures expressing a variety of emotions. Image courtesy of Ayelet Keshet via VectorStock

The Evolutionary Theory Of Emotion

No emotion is stronger than maternal love but a mother may feel the deepest love for her helpless infant.

— Charles Darwin, evolutionary theorist

The first step to differentiating between emotions and feelings is to understand why we have emotions. Our most basic emotions help us survive and adapt to our environment.

The video explains the evolutionary theory of emotion:

Quiz

After watching this video, which of the following emotions DOESN'T help people survive?

The James-Lange Theory Of Emotion

The James-Lange theory of emotion focuses on how our bodies react to events. It connects stimuli (events that happen) to our physiology (how our bodies work).

The theory says that before we experience emotions from stimuli, our body will experience physical changes. The video below explains the theory in more detail:

Quiz

Imagine that a 4-year old girl named Jane saw a rabbit. When Jane saw the rabbit, she felt excited. She started to breathe faster and her pupils began to dilate. In this situation, what is the stimulus?

Differentiating Between Emotions And Feelings

In this video, you'll meet Ethan. You'll see how awareness is the key for him to be aware of his reactions and produce a better outcome (or result).

Quiz

Imagine that Tom has had a very busy day and is stressed out. When he is shopping for groceries, he sees a shopper run into his cart. It was an accident, but Tom is ready to yell at the shopper for his carelessness. What will help Tom gain control?

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